My mythical beast turns 16

On a sunny day, not unlike some of the ones we’ve enjoyed this week, my water broke and labor began for my second child. Neither of these occurred with any haste – it was more a leak than a gush and the progress of my contractions was painfully (literally) slow. When my red-faced, bald-headed baby boy finally made his debut it was a new day and I was in awe – of both his perfection and the strength of my body. Birthing him was, most definitely, my proudest physical accomplishment.

Sixteen years later this child continues to amaze and exhaust me. I do, however, find myself worrying about him more than I do either of his brothers. His humor, intelligence and charm have provided him with wonderful life experiences. Unfortunately, though, his gifts have also given him the opportunity to avoid truly exerting himself. Ever. Everything has come so easily to this guy…it kind of scares me.

During my run yesterday I was thinking about him and life and challenges to be met and conquered. I thought about all the things I want him to know – about himself and life. Of course, being a teenager, he only ingests my motherly wisdom in small doses and on an as needed basis. Hopefully one day he will come to know all of the following…

1. Nothing in life is more important than health and happiness.
2. There is satisfaction in doing your best and working hard.
3. You have been blessed with many talents.
4. Be where you are.
5. Don’t ever lose your sense of right and wrong.
6. Responsibilities will make you a grownup far more than a driver’s permit.
7. You can do anything.
8. Take your time figuring out what you want to do career wise. There’s no rush.
9. That being said, finding yourself is a self-sponsored trip.
10. You may look like your father, but so much of your behavior mirrors my own. I get you.
11. Travel and see as much of the world as you can.
12. Be honest. In the long run, it’s easier.  I promise.
13. Keep carrying groceries for old women.
14. Never stop giving good hugs.
15. Going to concerts with you has been one of the best rewards of parenthood.
16. You are loved.