(20)23 and me

2023 was the year when…

  • it became possible for me to be generous to the woman who never gave me enough
  • the effects of climate change became absolutely undeniable
  • i worked to find the balance between gentle acceptance and the feeling of giving in
  • direct honesty became unavoidable
  • i started to understand that my physical capabilities have peaked
  • spending 2 weeks alone in Italy was my greatest luxury
  • my family grew larger as i met more cousins and relatives
  • being frank caused me to lose the person who set me straight as an adolescent – no regrets
  • for the first time in many years, i shared a home with a man I didn’t birth
  • i became part of a new restaurant family
  • the importance of living every single day motivated me
  • the world’s general lack of civility both enraged and saddened me
  • reels about cats and dogs filled my feed as i wondered how anyone could ever abandon a pet
  • witnessing my friends lose their loved ones became an increasingly frequent occurrence
  • when i began to feel that this country’s democracy has never been more fragile
  • my distaste for educational bureaucracies, something i first experienced as a student, grew to previously unknown levels
  • i wondered where the tipping point is in terms of there being more people you know dead or alive
  • my urge for the darkness and heat of a yoga studio grew into a need
  • life’s next chapter began to feel incredibly close
  • i realized that being independent and being alone aren’t necessarily the same states of being
  • outdoors was my favorite place to be
  • i was happiest when the sun was shining, regardless of temperature
  • the health and well being of my sons was what i was most appreciative for every single day

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