When Thanksgiving became Independence Day

Many years ago,  pre-children, I remember discussing the merits of instructing children to cross only at the green vs. teaching them how to jaywalk intelligently.  Their father and I agreed that the latter was the ideal and vowed to do exactly that when we eventually had a family.  I thought about this conversation during my … Continue reading When Thanksgiving became Independence Day

It is what it is and other recent words

I've been called a "word girl" more than once in my life, a description I can't, and don't want to, deny.  Words mean a lot to me and I place a tremendous importance upon them.  I love the way the perfect word can illustrate a point with vividness and accuracy.  Words can be satisfying, they … Continue reading It is what it is and other recent words

Why does “fit” sound like “fat” to me?

For awhile I kept hearing that I was too thin.  It both disturbed and delighted me.  Don't get me wrong, I am a healthy eater and borderline obsessive exerciser, yet I don't deny my body either food or rest.  But there's something about being thin that feels powerful, in charge, in control. I grew up … Continue reading Why does “fit” sound like “fat” to me?

45 of the most memorable moments of my 45th year

In the spirit of life being comprised of moments and not years, I offer 45 special moments in time which I was blessed enough to enjoy in my 45th year... 1. Memorial Day Girls' weekend in Albany. 2. NYC with Liam - from the Met to running in the dark to Brooklyn from the Lower … Continue reading 45 of the most memorable moments of my 45th year